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On the bus, one lady complains to another: “My daughter has a higher education, she works as the head of a department, she is smart, beautiful, and her husband is a scoundrel. They lived together for two years, and he said that he could not continue to live with her like this. They are getting divorced. And what does he need?

What does a man need from a woman?

Really, what a man needs such that a woman for him becomes exactly the one and only, from which it is difficult to get away? So that he forever forgets friends, work, parents, and hurries to come home as soon as possible?

To begin with, it is necessary that the woman at home waiting for the return her husband. After all, no one wants to return to a house where it is empty and emotionally cold, and the wife will come no one knows when. Therefore, the main condition is that a woman should be at home before her husband and, busy with housework, wait for a meeting with her beloved.

So a man needs food , which he likes and which he will absorb with great pleasure. Of course, the dish should be prepared by a woman, and, of course, with love. After all, you can eat in any cafe or restaurant, but if a man knows that a delicious dinner is waiting for him at home, he will fly home at full speed. And proudly tell your friends that his wife cooks - you will lick your fingers. A woman must find out which dishes are a man’s favorite, which he absolutely cannot stand, and from here make a menu. When preparing food, you need to renounce all problems, think only about the good, imagine how much pleasure a man will get from these dishes. Then the food is “saturated” with the energy of love, which it transmits to the man. If the food is cooked with the thought that “I’m working in this kitchen again, only spoiling my manicure,” then the food will turn out tasteless, and the man will receive only negative energy with it, become irritated and nervous. Well, before the scandal - one step.

A man needs sex . And not only the “animal” satisfaction of his natural needs, but also the feminine confirmation of his success on the bed of love. It is important for him to know that he is good in bed, that since this time the woman was not yet good that she got orgasm after orgasm, in the end. A woman should respond to caresses, and not be a log with a stone expression on her face, who doesn’t care, as long as everything ends quickly. If sex was successful, the man is full of energy. If he did not receive “plus-reinforcements” from a woman, then his self-doubt grows. And as a result - either a search on the side of confirmation that he is a "giant" in sex, or impotence.

A man expects a woman admiration and inspiration . That is, emotions . Women themselves are emotional creatures, so her anger quickly turns into tears or laughter. As psychologists say, women are able to experience several emotions at the same time. A man is very weak emotionally, although he is very dependent on emotions. At some point in time, only one emotion can capture him. But what - depends only on the woman. A woman with her conveyed emotion makes a man strong or weak. If on the threshold he is met with a smile, joy and love, then the man will begin to experience the same emotion, giving in return also a smile, love and joy. But if a woman lashes out at the door with reproaches and insults, then the man begins to broadcast the same emotion outwardly. And what kind of love can we talk about at this moment if the world of a man is collapsing? Therefore, a woman should admire her man for something, and just like that, for the fact that he is in her life. After all, he is so deftly repairing a faucet or changing a light bulb, or cleaning snow in the yard! If this is not done, then the man will find another woman who will inspire him and admire him!

A woman must take care about his man, he needs it. Women see a lonely man, because he literally screams with all his appearance: “There is no one to take care of me.” Any care is needed. Whether it's washed clothes or an ironed shirt. Or a carefully draped blanket during daytime sleep. Or a sandwich for lunch, or a scarf tied around your neck in bad weather. Or a knitted sweater. The main thing is something made by the caring hands of a woman.

Obedience - Another non-obvious thing that all men expect from women. But a rare woman can and is ready to show obedience. Watch movies - how many disasters happen from the fact that a man said “keep your head down” or “don’t call anyone”, or “don’t follow me, wait here”, and the woman didn’t listen to him purely like a woman - she immediately began to call her friend or climb on the rampage, or run after your man, bringing him into danger. A man has a need to be a teacher or mentor to his woman, and she is a diligent student doing homework. A man does not like to repeat something twice, whether it is advice on housekeeping or solving family issues. After all, "a man said - a man did" his rule. And if a woman, after listening to a man, ignores him, makes him repeat him a second or third time with his behavior, then the man’s feeling of uselessness grows. And why does he need a woman who does not need him?

Another man needs light intrigue and some inaccessibility . A neighbor called - do not report right away, let him go through all the possible options in his mind from a lover to a boss. Men are very fond of solving all sorts of puzzles and riddles, so let their brains and imagination work. Well, then to his question - “Who called?”, Smiling, answer: “This is not what you thought ...”. If a man began to pester, flirting, you need to say that “not now, dear, the children are not sleeping,” but at the same time smile promisingly and shoot with eyes. But you can’t overdo it, because frenzied jealousy can cause a completely different reaction that a woman was counting on.

How can a woman know what a man wants?

How is it anyway woman to know what does her man need? It is necessary to deal with his pain, because during the showdown, pain and resentment spill out. Any quarrel, any conflict in the family is a cry for help and the need for support. And on both sides. Therefore, you need to carefully listen to the man. Sometimes resentment can literally be read between the lines, sometimes a man directly says that he does not like it.

More one way - this is a look at his man leaving for work, as if from the outside, as if he were a stranger - what does he lack in appearance? How do other women see him?

When exactly what he lacks established , the woman must begin to provide the man with this need. Whether it's food, whether it's care, any of the above, or a combination. And you need to start by changing yourself and your attitude towards your soulmate. After all, if a woman does not satisfy all the needs of a man, he will look for another or others who will fill the voids.

A woman does not know how to cook - you can learn by opening any culinary site or "Cookbook". Not knowing how to knit is also not a problem. Either you can find a bunch of training courses on the Internet, or ask a friend to teach. And everything else is not difficult to achieve - this is from the field of psychology of relationships and work on self-development.

There would be a wish maintain and improve relations with this particular man. Everything depends on the woman.

Elena Shevgota

What does a man need from a woman to be happy?- this question in different versions has been asked to me several dozen times already, both at consultations and in personal communication. For example, there is
a guy or a man who first met with one girl / woman, and eventually married another. And the question looked something like this. " But why is this happening? Why is there no logic and justice? What else does he need to be happy? Well, if only she would be much smarter, prettier, cook better, etc.

But this is not the case. I AM(questioning girl) much prettier. I'm definitely smarter, I cook better, I'm much better at keeping up a conversation, I make better money, etc. So why did my boyfriend leave me? What else do these guys need? I do not understand them. What does a man need from a woman so that he becomes happy with me and does not leave me?

There are not just many such questions, but a lot. More than half of the consultations are on this topic. They are sent to the mail to the administrator, they are asked in our Sunny Hands Vkontakte group, they are asked in the comments to my articles. Or order paid consultations. See

As far as possible, I answer them in articles and books. Of course, the main and simple answer is that men are not women. They may have completely different needs. And what is important to women may not matter to them at all.

However, these are general words, and in this article I systematized the basic needs (not declared, but real) of ordinary standard men, of which 80-90 percent. So, let's look at a few important aspects that a man really needs from a woman to make him happy with her.

Need number one. A man needs victory to be happy.

A man needs a victory, probably no less than a woman needs a family, children, stability.

Well, of course, not just a victory, but running around, fussing, overcoming difficulties, and then - victory. Victory in business, in sporting achievements, in career growth, in financial matters (and everything connected with this), in the evaluation of other males, etc.

If a man himself is not able to organize his successes, then he can be content with the victories of the team (the place where he works, the team in sports or even his team on TV, Russia, after all).

Men who are over 40 and who already pretend that they do not want anything, they are only trying to engage in self-deception so that it is not bitter. I saw dozens of transformations when someone said that he had enough of everything and did not need anything else. Then, due to various life circumstances (there was nowhere to go), he won in some area of life and completely changed. Again he needs results, victory. (It is clear that this need did not go anywhere, but she was simply in a dormant state)

However, there are women and girls who, by their behavior, contribute to the victories of a man, and there are those who contribute to his defeats or the fact that he does not even try to achieve anything (which, in fact, is also a defeat)

In other words, those women who let the achievements of a man take their course and, all the more, resist them, do not satisfy one of the most basic needs of their man in order for him to become happy with her.

And if so, then you can no longer ask: “Why am I, smart and beautiful, and he went to an ugly fool”?

Yes, she may be ugly and not as smart as you think, but she does at least something for the success of her man, and not vice versa, blocks him.

I cannot write here in detail about how to contribute to the success of a man. This requires a separate article or even a book. It is clear that you need to be interested, praise real successes and even the most minimal efforts that your loved one makes to achieve success, put up with the fact that part of the family budget and time is spent on various incomprehensible things, etc. I recommend reading “Your husband’s success are you ready for it?” .

But again I will repeat. Success for a man is no less important than a family for a woman. If you are this understand, then you are already on the right track so that a man never even thinks of leaving somewhere in 50 years of your life together. You will understand what a man needs from a woman first of all in order to become happy with her.

So, ask a man what he wants to achieve in life? It is not so much about the material signs of success as about its causes. That is, where and in what does he want to win?

After his answer, ask what needs to be done for this? (Usually this is special training, business training, training in sales skills or the ability to manage people or something else)

How to make sure that every day he allocates at least 1-2 hours for the victory? (Usually this is training in something and work)

Secondly, in order to become happy with a woman, a man needs protection from severe defeats.

Severe defeats are what can lead a man to a state of lying on the couch for a couple of years, and maybe even lead to the fact that he will stop striving somewhere altogether. This is not a completely obvious point for guys who are 15-25 years old, but those who are older will understand me.

Therefore, the obvious task is to avoid such severe injuries. (Defeats, of course, from the point of view of a man, not a woman. From the point of view of a woman, this may be a worthless event) After severe defeats, a man may want to live one for several years, or simply cease to be interesting for a woman.

Light failures, on the contrary, make a man stronger, more adequate. (But it is clear that not a series of defeats over 10 years).

But the bottom line is that a man, especially in his youth, rarely understands what risks, unpredictability, the need for caution are and, accordingly, cannot do obvious things to avoid the most severe risks.

However, a woman possesses such a quality and, in addition, she has the advantage that she sees from the outside.

There is an obvious conclusion here. If your man strives to "climb" somewhere and "run" for success, then look at the possible risks. If the risk is negligible, then let him run, even if he can lose. Even if something does not work out 100%, but the risk is negligible, but there is an opportunity to gain experience (for example, entrepreneurial), then you can try.

If the risk is significant, then make the man abandon his undertaking.

For example, if a man seeks to fight with a company of drunks and "evil" alone, then it is better to do everything to prevent this from happening. (Except in extreme cases) Risk of fracture, disability, etc. pretty big. If he wants to sell the apartment, borrow more money and start his own business, then of course, it’s also better to dissuade him.

Conversely, if he wants to start a business with minimal funds or wants to learn something that can somehow advance his career, then support him. Even if it doesn't work out, nothing bad will happen.

I will not give many examples here, since you are women and so you feel the danger better than men. Just at the right moment or support your loved one

Probably, it seems to you that I am saying obvious and simple things that all women do anyway. However, I can assure you that this is not the case. Most girls either do not give any attention to the achievements of their loved ones (I mean systematic actions, of course, not slogans), or do not stop him when he is clearly looking for trouble.

The third need. banter, jokes.

Without it, he will never be completely happy. If you have ever seen a company of 3-4 men, you will almost certainly see constant humor, jokes, banter (sometimes harsh, in your opinion). With rare exceptions, humor and banter are one of the strongest needs of men.
After all, our life, even full of achievements, is generally quite routine and boring. Those who can support laughter, practical jokes, are always valuable. For men, for some reason, humor (in their interpretation, however), for some reason means very, very much.

For example, you can watch several episodes of the Russian TV series "Interns", where several quite adult uncles are only engaged in joking, arguing with someone, cheating with pleasure, etc. And it is this nonsense, at first glance, activity that makes up the meaning of the life of the heroes. (Not work or study)
The value of humor for men (male humor, of course), according to my observations, is several times higher than for women.

The ability of a woman to hook a man (not too hard), repel his collision (this must be done all life, otherwise he will never respect you. How to gain the respect of a man, read the book “19 mistakes with men. How to make him respect and love you?), to understand and sincerely laugh at his jokes or strangers, but which are funny to him - this is the quality that is valued by men in women worth its weight in gold.

In other words, if a woman’s two higher educations, the ability to cook and speak intelligently, are put on one side of the scale, and the ability to joke, understand jokes, a general cheerful mood and an understanding of a sense of humor (male), then the sense of humor will certainly outweigh don't even hesitate.

Then the question. You need to spend 10 years to get 2 higher educations and a few more years to learn how to cook (which is useful in principle, but not too much) and read a lot of smart books, or a couple of months to learn to understand male humor, humor in general and learn to enjoy the good-natured banter?

And what will be the answer of most girls? Of course, you need to get higher education, read boring books in order to become smarter and do a lot of other necessary things.

Well, the more girls think so, the more such questions will be from the category: “Well, why am I smart and beautiful, and he went to a stupid and ugly one?”.

Again, I am not encouraging you to stop going to college, stop learning to cook, or stop reading a lot of books. Do what you think is necessary and important. Just understand that these skills are of secondary importance to meeting the basic needs of men.

And if the basic needs of a man are not satisfied, then he leaves. This I hope is obvious.
Again a little comparison.. If a man is good in face, figure and mind, but does not want to provide for his family, does not want to get married and does not want children, is this man good? The vast majority of women will leave this, no matter how handsome and smart he is, since he does not satisfy the basic needs of a woman.

It's the same with men. What does a man need from a woman to be happy? It is the satisfaction of basic needs.

Basic needs are met - he is with you forever. They are not satisfied, then they leave completely, change, close psychologically, drink, etc., depending on the character.

The fourth need. Man needs rest.

Ask yourself what is vacation for you? Women answer this question differently. It might be hanging out with friends, it might be time to read a magazine. For some, it is even cleaning the house or cooking something tasty.

For men, a good rest is, as a rule, silence, lying on the couch and other ways of doing nothing. And preferably all alone.

That is, one of the basic needs of a man is rest. This rest is simple and, among other things, it is a rest from a beloved woman.

It is still amazing to me how this one of the most simple and obvious needs of a man to understand is so often and grossly violated. And it is clear that a man, without loneliness and rest, begins to cling and find fault with you over all sorts of little things, because of which then, sometimes, serious conflicts flare up, up to the divorce of families and the division of property.

Why is that?

Yes, it's actually understandable. After all, a man's need for rest and loneliness is not a trifle at all, but a basic need. And in fact, it is not so difficult to satisfy her.

For the average man, it is enough for him to be alone for about 1 hour a day and leave him alone for 3-4 hours once a week. (at work, at home, or otherwise, it doesn't matter).

It is clear that there are different circumstances (sometimes this is impossible) and different men, but try to take this criterion as a basis and you may be surprised at the effect.

So, rest is a basic need for a man. Usually, rest for a man is loneliness or some kind of unprofitable and meaningless activity (fishing, for example, talking with friends about nothing, sleeping during the day, etc.) If the basic need is not satisfied, then there can be any reason for a quarrel.

Fifth need. What does a man need from a woman to be happy?? — Of course sex.

An even more obvious answer, but sometimes women do not see it point-blank. There are valid circumstances (small children, illnesses), but even under these conditions, the issue can be resolved. Sometimes there is no sex for completely far-fetched reasons, like “headache, offended, or something else.”

But it is obvious that if you leave a man without sex for a long time, then after some time another woman (mistress) will simply appear, with whom he will cheat on you. And then the question may arise about how to completely move to another woman.

In these circumstances, it is possible to say that a man is bad, betrayed, or something else like that, and, most likely, a woman will be right in her own way. On the other hand, you need to understand what your behavior can lead to what results.

Satisfy the basic needs of men, learn to satisfy your basic needs, and you won’t get away from each other.

So, so that the article does not turn into an immense one, I will sum up the small results of this paragraph.

Being a hero for a woman is an extremely powerful need for a man. If it seems to him that he is not worthy of you, does not pull, something that he has (it’s not about the material more, but about character and abilities), does not delight you, then he will most likely leave or the relationship will develop extremely hard. Because the state of "non-hero" does not make a man happy in a relationship with a woman.

As in all the above examples, it doesn't matter how things really are. The main thing is how a man feels. Admire others less, appreciate what your partner has and tell him sometimes about it. That's the whole truth.

Let's sum up the article. Satisfying basic male needs is what causes a man to appreciate a woman. This is what a man needs from a woman to become happy.

Sincerely, Rashid Kirranov.

Many women are interested in the question: how to become ideal for a man? What do men want? What do men need to be happy? What is their ideal family? These questions have fairly simple answers.

What do men need to be happy?

Men, like women, want the same thing - it remains only to clearly define what specifically makes people happy.

1. UNDERSTANDING IN THE FAMILY

Firstly, every person wants to find understanding in his family, because the family is the closest people, and where, if not in it, to look for support, sympathy and mutual understanding.

Forget about the phrase “I told you!” If you want a man to continue to share his worries and anxieties with you.

If you cannot understand him, he will find another, more understanding and sensitive person who can support him in a difficult moment.

2. ACCEPT AS YOU ARE

Secondly, a man should feel that you need him the way he is, that you do not seek to reshape him completely. Even if your husband likes to sculpt flowers from salty text or assemble a designer.

Leave him alone with his favorite activities, he needs emotional relief, which is achieved by everyone in different ways.

Just because you're not interested doesn't mean he shouldn't be, either. Try to join him - the man will appreciate your attempt to get closer.

3. FREEDOM OR PERSONAL SPACE

Thirdly, a man should feel free. Let your beloved at least sometimes be alone with you, stop total control - and the man will be sure that he got the best woman of all.

4. TRUST

Fourth, it is necessary to have the basis of any relationship - trust. Often, women cannot fully trust a man, and this can be understood - burnt in milk ...

But if you want a man to trust you, take the first step.

5. BE A HERO

Fifth, men need to feel like heroes in the eyes of their women. Stop "cutting" your loved one for all his actions, sometimes even ridiculous ones, and praise for everything you can - for washed dishes, for attentiveness, and so on.

This will motivate a man to further accomplishments. A man who feels important and needed will never leave a woman who was able to consider all his, albeit trifling at first glance, dignity.

Try to become for your man the woman of his dreams. What men need to be happy is to praise him, love him, take care of him, pay attention to his virtues and turn a blind eye to his shortcomings.

Then the man will understand that you are the only one with whom he would like to spend his whole life, and the longevity of your union is ensured.

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Men who have to constantly imitate something in bed, while not feeling the support of their partner, have a hard time. They complain that in bed they have to demonstrate their achievements in order to meet the expectations of women.

Despite the fact that men tend to have a more primitive attitude towards sex than women, they also tend to suffer from insecurity about their sexual attractiveness. Such uncertainty can negatively affect a man's sexual life. As a result of the study, it turned out that most men complain that most often it is they, and not women, who initiate sex.

Women are often limited only to what a man offers. Without thinking about how to turn on herself and turn on a man. The lack of initiative in a woman can tell a man that he is not interesting for her as a sexual partner and his manifestations are perceived by a woman as an "imposition".

Monotonous and predictable sex also does not suit many men. Men crave initiative and ingenuity from women, and most importantly, a demonstration of desire, his desire - MEN! That woman who shows a man her desire to possess him, willingly responds to his fantasies and demonstrates her own, just such a woman in the eyes of a man is sexually attractive!

As a result of the survey, it turned out that the majority of men, answering the question of what a woman needs to do to excite him more, answered "Be active in bed."

In our time, when sex is not a closed topic, however, many women are still very restrained in bed. They are embarrassed to open up to their partner, show their sexual desires and show preferences.

This is due to the fact that they are afraid to seem too accessible. Some women lack the ability to be inventive, to actively express their emotions in sex and at the same time demonstrate their confidence as a woman who needs to be won. Not everyone succeeds in maintaining the balance of this fine line.

Women, if you are confident in a sexual partner, do not be afraid to show your companion desires and fantasies.

Take the initiative, because by going to meet a man, you show him that you not only consider him sexually attractive, but thereby allow him to feel his importance and male viability in the field of sex too, as well as to feel loved in the full sense of the word !

This question has been asked to me dozens of times already. For example, there is a guy or a man who first met with one girl / woman, and eventually married another. And the question looked something like this. “But why is this happening? Why is there no logic and justice? What else does he need to be happy? Well, if only she would be much smarter, prettier, cook better, etc.

But this is not the case. I (the girl asking the question) is much prettier. I'm definitely smarter, I cook better, I'm much better at keeping up a conversation, I make better money, etc. So why did my boyfriend leave me? What else do these guys need? I do not understand them. What does a man need from a woman so that he becomes happy with me and does not leave me?

There are not just many such questions, but a lot. They are sent to the mail to the administrator, they are asked in our Sunny Hands Vkontakte group, they are asked in the comments to my articles.

A man needs victory to be happy
A man needs a victory, probably no less than a woman needs a family, children, stability.

If a man himself is not able to organize his successes, then he can be content with the victories of the team (the place where he works, the team in sports or even his team on TV, Russia, after all).

Well, since the article is written for women, I already foresee the question: “Well, let him win, I don’t mind. And am I here?" (A woman, that is) It is clear that a woman is not opposed to a man winning. (And that is not always the case. Some are afraid of the success of a man, after which a man can allegedly leave a woman and subconsciously oppose him.

And if so, then the question may no longer arise: “Why am I smart and beautiful, and he went to an ugly fool”?

Yes, she may be ugly and not as smart as you think, but she does at least something for the success of her man, and not vice versa, blocks him.

But again I will repeat. Success for a man is no less important than a family for a woman. If you understand this What a man needs from a woman to become happy, then you are already on the right path to ensure that a man never even thinks of leaving somewhere in 50 years of your life together. You will understand what a man needs from a woman first of all in order to become happy with her.

So, ask a man what he wants to achieve in life? It is not so much about the material signs of success as about its causes. That is, where and in what does he want to win?

I must say right away that there are men who really do not need success. Their self-esteem is so low or there are some destructive parenting programs that they need to fail and then understand how unfair life or one of their colleagues, etc. However, these men are in the minority.

What a man needs in order to become happy with a woman is protection from severe defeats.

Severe lesions- this is what can lead a man to a state of lying on the couch for a couple of years, and maybe even lead to the fact that he will stop striving somewhere at all. This is not a completely obvious point for guys who are 15-25 years old, but those who are older will understand me.

Light failures, on the contrary, make a man stronger, more adequate. (But it is clear that not a series of defeats over 10 years).

However, a woman possesses such a quality and, in addition, she has the advantage that she sees from the outside.

banter, jokes

Without it, he will never be completely happy. If you have ever seen a company of 3-4 men, you will almost certainly see constant humor, jokes, banter (sometimes harsh, in your opinion). With rare exceptions, humor and banter are one of the strongest needs of men. What does a man need from a woman to become happy 2After all, our life, even full of achievements, is generally quite routine and boring. Those who can support laughter, practical jokes, are always valuable. For men, for some reason, humor (in their interpretation, however), for some reason means very, very much.

And if the basic needs of a man are not satisfied, then he leaves. This I hope is obvious. Again, a small comparison. If a man is good in face, figure and mind, but does not want to provide for his family, does not want to get married and does not want children, is this man good? The vast majority of women will leave this, no matter how handsome and smart he is, since he does not satisfy the basic needs of a woman.

It's the same with men. What does a man need from a woman to be happy? It is the satisfaction of basic needs.

Basic needs are met − he is with you forever. They are not satisfied, then they leave completely, change, close psychologically, drink, etc., depending on the character.

The man needs rest.

If he is not allowed to rest alone, then he begins to gradually become bitchy and often the reason for this behavior is completely incomprehensible to women. The same can probably be said about women. However, the fact is that the understanding of rest can be quite different for women and men.

For men, a good rest is, as a rule, silence, lying on the couch and other ways of doing nothing. And preferably all alone.

That is, one of the basic needs of a man is rest. This rest is simple and, among other things, it is a rest from a beloved woman.

Why is that?

Yes, it's actually understandable. After all, a man's need for rest and loneliness is not a trifle at all, but a basic need. And in fact, it is not so difficult to satisfy her.

For the average man, it is enough for him to be alone for about 1 hour a day and leave him alone for 3-4 hours once a week. (at work, at home, or otherwise, it doesn't matter).

It is clear that there are different circumstances (sometimes this is impossible) and different men, but try to take this criterion as a basis and you may be surprised at the effect.

So rest This is the basic need of a man. Usually, rest for a man is loneliness or some kind of unprofitable and meaningless activity (fishing, for example, talking with friends about nothing, sleeping during the day, etc.) If the basic need is not satisfied, then there can be any reason for a quarrel.

What does a man need from a woman to be happy? - Sex of course

A man needs to be a hero to his woman

What can be the most difficult for a man in a relationship with a woman? What is he most afraid of? Without what a man can never be happy with a woman?

It is not surprising, but it turns out to be "Do not become the hero of your novel", that is, a man whom a particular girl does not admire for one reason or another.

If a man thinks that he is not a hero for his woman (at least sometimes), then he will not be happy with her and, most likely, will leave for another (he will start cheating, drinking, withdrawing into himself, etc.).

Satisfy the basic needs of men, learn to satisfy your basic needs, and you won’t get away from each other.

On the one hand, this point is obvious. After all, if a woman thinks about a man (whether she is right or not) that he does not like her outwardly, that he does not like her character, that he does not respect her, then she is unlikely to seek to meet with such a type.

So it is with men. If a man thinks that he is not a hero for a woman (whether he is right or not), then he most likely will not even court her. If, for some reason, such a man and a woman began to live together, then harmony will never come in their relationship until the woman learns to behave in such a way that the man feels like a hero. (at least sometimes)

A lot here depends on the woman, and not only on the actions of the man.

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